Thursday, May 24, 2012 1:05 AM IST

The price of blind faith in Western 'freedom'

Balbir Punj


Last Updated : 05 Feb 2012 12:13:51 AM IST

Thanks to a nation-wide uproar, the two kids separated from the Indian couple settled in Norway, will rejoin their family in India.

We in this country came across this cold aspect of Western civilisation, when the media went all out to focus on the incident, wherein the Norwegian government had charged the parents of keeping the kids close to them, hand-feeding them and making the children sleep with them.

Acts such as feeding children by hand, attending to their needs personally, and showering filial affection through care and concern should have been hailed as exemplary in any culture, and has been long valued in India. But it was considered criminal under Norwegian law.

More than government intervention to separate children from parents, the terrible consequence of industrial-service economies on children, is the rise in the demise of even the nuclear family. In Norway itself, we had the blood-curdling scene of a fanatic gunning down over 70 young campers and bombing the Prime Minister’s residence.

From the US, we have almost daily news of school students and adolescents snatching guns from their parents and walking into schools, shooting down other children indiscriminately. Student gangs roaming about urban streets for criminal purposes, widespread use of narcotics, under-16 pregnancy among school girls, etc, are the tell-tale signs of a society in decline.

The rapid rise in divorce rates in the West (and now in India as well) only expose the loss of abiding values in family life, as marriages are contracted for pleasure rather than for raising a family. Many Western governments have legalised same-sex “marriages”, which means the only purpose of the so-called marriage is pleasure. The secularists and extremist liberals are—in this country too—demanding that gay and lesbians be given the right to practice what they believe in.

It was a powerful leader from the East, modern Singapore’s architect Lee Kuan Yew, who warned governments and people against adopting Western values wholesale, even while they embraced the market economy. As a result, Singapore has strict laws against drugs, gang warfare, nudity, nightlife and other Western aberrations, even as the island nation has adopted the market economy and prospered, demonstrating that the West’s abandonment of values need not necessarily follow in other societies that promote free enterprise to improve their standard of living.

One significant consequence of the substitution of family life, with individuals seeking pleasure as the sole purpose of existence, has been the gathering economic crisis in the Western society, now marked by possible collapse of capitalism itself. A case in point is Europe. These economies are not growing, but crawling at 1-2 per cent per annum. They have almost stagnant populations, which means there is no rise in demand—that provides the growth impulse to any economy.

This moral crisis is best illustrated by icons that the West has, in recent years created, and the type of intellectual leadership it has bequeathed, that many in our country and in modern democracies are eager to worship. In pop culture, take the Beatles, or the more recent Michael Jackson, for instance.

The last days of both are revealing—victims of hype, on drugs, with several broken marriages, and suicides. In the case of Jackson, his own personal physician stands arraigned for having raised the drug injections, on which he lived, to the level that killed the wildly-popular singer. Yet another icon of the post-war era was the leftist Jean-Paul Sartre. The French writer Simone de Beauvoir, his mistress, in her farewell book on Sartre, says of his last days: his incontinence, his drunkenness were made possible by girls slipping him bottles of whisky, the struggle for power over what was left of his mind.

Yet another great intellectual of the post-war years in Western society was Bertrand Russell, co-author of Principia Mathematica and author of countless other books on everything, from philosophy to sociology. Russell’s obiter dictum: “children should be sent to boarding schools to get them away from mother love”.

Now you know why the Norway government behaved as it did regarding the Indian kids. It’s the same with all children in the most egalitarian secular welfare societies of our times.

The opinions expressed in this column are the author’s own

Balbir Punj  is a senior BJP MP

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Comments

LOL man. You make me laugh and further reinforce the fact that our elected representatives are not only idiots but have no semblance of reality. Nudity and nightlife are western aberrations? I think you conveniently forgot that Kamasutra was written in India. You have enough time on your hands to pen an article on the ill effects of same sex marriages and so on but cant do anything about the rapes that happen daily? What about corruption, bribery etc? If by writing a so called 'piece' you expect that you will connect with the young voters, dream on. I think you should stop calling yourself a Senior BJP MP. There is nothing that even comes across as being remotely serious about your article here. All you want to do is harp on ideals that havent kept pace with time. Oh and BTW, I am from a BJP family but I feel shameful that the party has such people who consider themselves senior.

By Munna
2/12/2012 9:39:00 PM

I take it that Bertrand Russell is of the view that mother's love should not be very much excessive so as to spoil the child. in fact he is of the opinion that parental affection is very much necessary for normal growth of child. I shall quote from one of his writings: "The child whose parents are fond of him accepts their affection as law of nature. He does not think very much about it, although it is of great importance to his happiness. He thinks about the world, about the adventures that will come his way when he is grown up. But behind all these external interests there is a feeling that he will be protected from disaster by parental affection. The child from whom for any reason parental affection is withdrawn is likely to become timid and unadventurous, filled with fears and self-pity, and no longer able to meet the world in a mood of gay exploration."

By VISWANATHAN
2/12/2012 12:20:00 AM

Have lot of issues with this out dated peice. 1. regarding the norwegian incident no one of us is in possession of facts. what if the parents were actually in the wrong norwegian government agency acted correctly does Mr. Punj has all the facts 2. Low divorce rates earlier in India did not mean more happy families it actually meant a lot more unhappy families with Women who did not have the financial independence having to put up with a whole lot of abuses and still be stuck in a bad marriage. In my opinion on thje balance of things a high divorce rate is a better thing 3. What is wrong in pleasure? can the author explain please 4. I do not know what the economic growth rate of europe has to do with anything. Pre liberalisation when indians had "family values", did not seek "pleasure" our growth rate was nothing to write home about In the end i would say that if our MP's (i would not call them leaders) like Mr. Punj focussed on the real problems of our people then nonsense like

By Natarajan Ramamurthy
2/9/2012 11:25:00 AM

I think whoever wrote this also admires China and Pakistan.

By Bhagwad Jal Park
2/9/2012 12:17:00 AM

If this article were read by a liberal Malayalee, Balbir would be "Punj-ed" in the mouth.

By Sidin
2/8/2012 8:37:00 PM

you need a society is decline? how about highest rape rate, highest number child prostitutes,class discrimination and lack of basic amenities for a vast majority of population? there are a thousand things that need urgent attention and all I've been hearing is too much freedom.if half the enthusiasm with which people like you are championing the suppression of civil liberties was shown on corruption or any other worthy causes we wouldn't be languishing at the bottom of every human development indices. Those vaunted western democracies you are warning against aping have been at the forefront of every innovation in the past century,every amenity that makes your life easier is a western invention.what ever their faults might be when they say freedom they mean it,even the most poor person in the western county has better social security than any Indian. I may not agree with what you say but I will defend to the death your right to say it -Evelyn Beatrice Hall.

By harik
2/8/2012 8:29:00 PM

This article could have been written by a fundamentalist christian preacher and nobody would have noted the difference. What is wrong in marriage for pleasure? Is it not better than marriage for dowry? Who would have thought that BJP and fundamentalist christian preachers have had this much in common? Wish BJP concentrated on elections, governance and other issues.

By Siva Bhaskaran
2/7/2012 12:43:00 PM
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